Feng Shui for Lovers: Creating a Harmonious Living Space that Inspires Passion and Sparks Intimacy

Our humble abodes are so much more than just places to live; they’re sanctuaries for relaxation, self-care, and of course, intimacy! But sometimes, the daily clutter and routine can leave our love lives feeling somewhat… stagnant. Here’s where the ancient Chinese art of Feng Shui can come into play!

Feng Shui, literally translated as “wind-water,” focuses on creating harmonious living spaces that promote positive energy flow. By applying some simple Feng Shui principles to your bedroom, you can cultivate an environment that sparks romance and ignites passion! Here’s what you need to know…

Setting the Stage for Love

  • The Commanding Position:         Imagine your bed as a throne of sorts in your kingdom of love. Ideally, position it diagonally opposite the bedroom door, giving you a clear view of the entrance while lying down. This creates a sense of security and control, thus fostering a more relaxed and         intimate atmosphere.         


  • Banish the Clutter: Clutter represents stagnant energy. So, tidy up your bedroom, remove any unnecessary furniture, and create a sense of spaciousness. This allows for better energy flow and promotes a sense of calm, perfect         for unwinding and connecting with your partner. The only “clutter” you should have in your love nest are sex toys and vibrators (or Vibratoren as they say in Germany)
  • The Power of Pairs: In Feng Shui, pairs symbolize harmony and partnership. Incorporate         pairs of objects throughout your bedroom – bedside lamps, throw         pillows, or artwork depicting couples. This reinforces the feeling of unity and togetherness.
  • Invite Nature in: Natural elements like plants and soothing earth tones (think calming         greens and warm browns) bring a sense of peace and vitality to your space. Add a touch of greenery with a low-maintenance houseplant or incorporate nature-inspired artwork.
  • Light the Way to Romance: Harsh overhead lighting can be a real mood-killer. As such, we recommend that you opt for softer, adjustable lighting sources like bedside lamps or dimmer switches. Play with warm, candlelight-like bulbs to create a more inviting and romantic ambiance…

Bedroom Bliss: Beyond the Basics

While the above tips lay a solid foundation, why not consider these additional elements to elevate your love nest:

  • Aromatherapy: Certain essential oils can really help to set the mood. Lavender promotes relaxation, while ylang-ylang is known for its aphrodisiac qualities. Diffuse a few drops of your chosen oil for a subtle and sensual touch.
  • Sensual Textures: Soft, luxurious fabrics like silk or velvet can heighten sensory experiences. Consider adding a plush throw blanket or silk sheets to your bed.
  • A Touch of Luxury: Treat yourselves to high-quality bedding and invest in a comfortable         mattress. A good night’s sleep is essential for overall well-being and can indirectly contribute to a more fulfilling sex life.

Remember: Feng Shui is a journey, not a destination. Experiment, adjust, and personalize your space accordingly to create a unique haven that reflects your relationship and sparks your intimacy.

Beyond the Bedroom

While the bedroom is indeed the epicenter of romance, consider applying Feng Shui principles to other areas of your home as well.


Create a cozy and inviting living room for movie nights or a relaxing reading nook for stolen moments of connection.

When fostering positive energy flow throughout your living space, you can cultivate a truly harmonious atmosphere that not only enhances your overall well-being, but strengthens your bond as a couple as well!